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Tough Love
There’s a saying in life that can apply to various situations, and it goes, “Don’t do the crime if you can’t do the time.”
How often have you recalled being a child and saying “I can’t wait til I’m grown! Ain’t nobody gon’ be able to tell me nothing!” ?
So, you grow up into a man or a woman with that SAME child-like mentality. Only now, the things you used to do and get away with as a child have adult consequences. Then, you want to revert to being a child again and put the blame on others for your poor decisions because you “grown now and can’t nobody tell you nothing”.
“Yeah, overlooking your tomorrow’s til they finally came”. [Tupac]
“You make your bed hard, you the one that has to sleep in it. Don’t expect me to cosign your BS cause I taught you better. Learn the lessons. Handle your business, and choose your battles wisely”. [A Mother’s Wisdom]
“If you can’t feed your baby, then don’t have a baby”. [Michael J]
“How you gone live right, when you ain’t right within?” [Lauryn Hill]
“Do something TODAY, that your future self will thank you for.” [Proverb]
“Become the change YOU want to see in YOUR OWN Life”.
Patience, perseverance, and prayer.
Like, share or comment if you found something in this post that resonates with your soul.
Peace, love, and prosperity.
ET
Banking: Credit vs. Debit (update)
When I talk about credit vs. debit, I’m not speaking about the retail/revolving line of credit cards, we’re discussing the debit card purchases or PIN based transactions vs. using your bank card like a credit card for signature-based transactions. The question was asked, “is one better than the other?” My response, although rather vague at the time was “it depends”. The person sitting across from me then edged me on…”depends on what?!” So, I put my pen down and sat back in my chair then looked over my glasses at her earnestly and said, “whether you have money in your bank account at the time of the transaction for it to be declined or approved.” The young lady was still looking confused, so I decided to break it down a bit more for the sake of additional questions (I was in a hurry to complete an assignment).
“If you use your PIN, the terminal uses your current collected balance to determine if there is sufficient funds available to approve the purchase. In the event you don’t have enough money to cover the transaction or purchase amount, then using credit to sign for your items, is a way to save you the embarrassment of being declined at the time of check out. That is, if you have set up the ‘debit card overdraft coverage’ option with your bank. (something I would not advocate, unless it’s a case of I have no money to by food for me and my children).”
I could tell that my young friend still wasn’t getting it so I turned around in my swivel chair, got up and walked towards my bookshelf, searched for Journey Into Finance by E.N. Towner, flipped through the pages of Chapter 1 found what I was looking for and handed her the book. “Read Chapter 1, and if you have any further questions, call me to set up an appointment to discuss them.” That was how I earned my first paying client. We set up a counseling session for every other Saturday in the morning. I called our session “Banking: Getting on Track”, which can be purchased for a limited time at a ridiculously low price of $25.00.
Update- while running some errands today, I stopped to pick up a few groceries at Walmart. The lady in line ahead of me was attempting to use her debit card as a credit card and was told by the cashier that they no longer allow a debit card to be used as credit. 
The lady was confused as she began searching for a credit card to use instead of her debit card. The cashier said, “they’re starting to do this so that people can’t take a stolen debit card to purchase large ticket items”.
*Feeling a bit cynical about corporate America- I thought to myself, serves them right. Turning good workers away (cashiers) who request to see some identification, would normally prevent these type of thefts just to save money to invest in programmed machines instead!* Whoa, it’s time to head home and do some meditating ’cause I’m feeling some kinda way today. Somebody had to say it, I’m just keeping it real. Short, sweet (kind of), and packed with information.
(UPDATE)
After some complaining from customers, the terminal owners offered merchants the convenience of a non- PIN based option for their purchases. Now if you pay attention, you’ll see the option of NO PIN. This is especially helpful for credit cards and can work with the debit cards as well for signature based purchases.
That’s all for now. Thanks for reading, until next time…like, share, and/or comment.
Wishing you peace and prosperity,
ET
HOW TO FEEL YOUR OWN LOVE AND ATTENTION
The other day, I had a conversation with a friend about relationships and why some people behave in the mannerisms they do. The best thing that a person can do to improve their relationships with others, is to be authentic with themselves.
I enjoy watching the videos by psychologist Ralph Smart and hope that you experience something new from his talks- I know they’ve helped me out a lot.
